Cheers to being single and loving it. This phase of my life is called " Being Selfish" I'm twenty-nine soon to be thirty on a journey of redemption, still trying to find myself, and all I can say is it sucks, big time. I am the biggest advocate of Qadr, everything that happens good or bad is Allah's will, so I do not cry over spilled milk. However, when you are the first child of a Yoruba woman, who is running out of patience because at your age she had left her first marriage with two kids, and already chilling with her second husband. She wants to throw a wedding that will shut down Lagos. As a lover girl, attraction is very important to me, I will not marry anyone or anything. I have to wake up every morning feeling good about the choice I made, even on the bad days, the sparks must be present, or else, baby girl will step out. I do not lie to myself, I am my biggest cheerleader and critic, no one on God's earth knows me more than I know myself, the only...
Welcome to the diary of a curious mind. A struggling Muslim in her late twenties, drifting through life.